getting things done for a change on sunday.

fredrick took me to the grocery store to get some groceries. it's hot as hell out there. when he brought me back, i think when i was opening the door for him to bring the groceries in- he said to me, "now you'll learn how to do this yourself because when i go home- you'll be able to help yourself!" so that tells me that he plans on going to africa on vacation again for like a month or so like he usually does. it irritates me that other people just jump to assuming i can't do things without even seeing for themselves, so they appear "responsible" or "caring" or wtf. so it was probably a good thing that i had fredrick buy tide pods today since i have a little difficulty lugging the big bottle of detergent around when washing my clothes. he claims that the washing machines on this floor are broken though- so he always goes in the laundry room UPSTAIRS to wash the clothes and i KNOW that it wouldn't be safe for me to try to haul my laundry up and down some stairs when i do the laundry.. so i may have to think of an alternative for that.
douglas came over on friday and he casually asked me when my birthday was, since we talked about going to a strip club for it- then he asked me if i still wanted to go to rick's cabaret. i said, "YEAH!" because there's gotta be a first time for everything and it's coincidentally my birthday when we're going. i looked at the calendar this morning and i'm scheduled to volunteer at sabathani on my birthday- so at least i'll have something to do that day besides the strip club at night.
i also managed to express my interest in working at some bank today, they want me to schedule a virtual interview with them and i'm HOPEFULLY gonna do the virtual interview tomorrow when my job coach comes.. i figure it might be more appropriate if she's there to assist me or give me tips on the interview. if it doesn't work to schedule it tomorrow for whatever reason- i'm comfortable doing it independently another day but i just figured she might help me be more successful at the interview so i ACTUALLY get hired.